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Life lessons (aka cop-out)

August 26, 2010

Ok life is just slightly hectic this week so I am posting a list of “life lesson” I ran across while being all hectic this week. So yes – this is a cop-out of me actually having to write anything. But… nuggets of wisdom, people.

There were ones left out by the person I received this from. But I agree with her edits – and added in some of my own thoughts instead. So I did a little writing.

The bold additions are mine.

  1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
  2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
  3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
  4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
  5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
  6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
  7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
  8. It’s ok to get angry with your friends. They can take it.
  9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
  10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
  11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
  12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
  13. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
  14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
  15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; you got this.
  16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
  17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
  18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
  19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
  20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
  21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
  22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.
  23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
  24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
  25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
  26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?
  27. Always choose life.
  28. Forgive everyone everything. Eventually.
  29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
  30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
  31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
  32. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and your family will. Stay in touch.
  33. Make your own luck.
  34. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
  35. Growing old beats the alternative – dying young.
  36. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
  37. Get outside every day.
  38. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
  39. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
  40. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
  41. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. Including yourself.
  42. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
  43. The best is yet to come.
  44. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
  45. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
  46. If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
  47. Yield.
  48. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Originally posted here.

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